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December 31st, 2008

A Day Late…

Yesterday, for Gratituesday, Laura challenged her readers to write about “How God Was Great in 2008″.  I knew it was coming because she warned us before her vacation, and I had planned to write the post… but it’s taken me an extra day to finally finish it.  Better late than never, eh?

It’s been a tough year, hasn’t it?  I don’t know of ANYONE in my life that hasn’t had a few extra downs this year - financial problems, health scares, failing relationships, unexpected tragedies - it’s just been one of “those” years.

For the last month or two, I’ve been eagerly anticipating the start of 2009.  I’ve begun pushing 2008 out of my mind and trying to distance myself from some of the tougher moments.  But during our Christmas trip to CA, when I ended up spending so much time in bed, I had a little EXTRA time for reflection.  (And yes, I managed to do some thinking and praying in between all the sleeping).

Turns out, I’ve had a pretty bad attitude.  And I’ve wanted to skip all the gratitude and thankfulness, and just be down in the dumps instead.  I’ve actually caught myself enjoying the misery a bit too much.  Did you know you can do that?  Oh yes, you can!

But no more… because…

…Although our kids experienced pretty significant health issues this year - croup multiple times, reaction to peanuts which ended up with a severe peanut allergy, ER trip after ER trip - every incident turned out OK.  God was watching over us, and I have continued to feel the protecting arm of Him and His angels especially since Martha’s diagnosis.  We’ve made it through six months with the peanut allergy, and no epi-pen yet! (YAY!)

…While we have continued to experience the joys of home-ownership, we’ve had a few extra head-aches.  Allan and I prayed pretty intensely when a plumbing issue first arose in October, because we weren’t sure how bad it was going to be or how costly.  This issue in particular became a disguised blessing, when our insurance company provided enough to cover the damages AND then some.  The leak in the bathroom was repaired, and there was money left over for a much WANTED (not needed) home improvement project.  (Which MIGHT get done on the first day of 2009, if all goes well). :-)   We were so thankful to have such a blessing for an outcome.

…Although my sister was diagnosed with stage four breast cancer, she has had a remarkable six months in treatment and the current prognosis is good.  The doctor was hoping to reduce her cancer to less than 50% with chemo, and while we don’t yet know number (hopefully next week), the physical exams lead us to think it has been reduced MUCH more than that.  I have a whole lot more to say on THAT subject, but it’s too hard to type through tears in my eyes.  Suffice it say, God is GOOD, and prayers are being answered.

This year, through hardship after hardship, in our family and in others, I have watched God triumph.  Some relationships are still difficult (at best), but God is bringing about good where satan wants evil.  Family members who were lost to tragic means are missed (greatly), but God is healing those left behind.  Financial issues for some are TOUGH… VERY, VERY tough, but we all still have roofs over our heads, blankets to keep us warm, clothes on our backs, cars to drive, and enough food to eat.

Yes, it’s time for a new year… and I’m mighty thankful about that… and I resolve to do better about being thankful for each new day in 2009 - no matter WHAT comes our way.

God Bless You and Yours this New Year’s Eve…

(and I promise we’ll get back to talking digi-scrappin’ in 09!)

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December 30th, 2008

Another name for the Grinch - the FLU… and PINK EYE!

So, if you are a regular to this blog, I’m sorry!  Last week was supposed to be full of posts that I had pre-written and dated to publish at various times.  Apparently I’m having issues with that pre-date function again, as NONE of the posts appeared as scheduled.  And they are all gone.  Disappeared.  Can’t find them anywhere.

I did NOT notice that they hadn’t posted last week… for two reasons.  One, I was in California and my mother’s new computer is slightly difficult to work with (love you, Mom).  And Two - I had the flu.

There have only been a handful of times in my life since oh, about 1992, that I haven’t checked my email DAILY.  (And by daily, we all know I mean, “a thousand times a day”).  I’ve gone on one or two trips through the years where I missed a day here and there.  I’m sure there’ve been two-three day stretches occasionally.  But… they are VERY few and far between.

This last Christmas week was one of those stretches.  I think I checked email last on Tuesday morning.  Before the flu hit.  And I didn’t get to check it again until we got HOME from California on Friday night/Saturday morning (1 a.m.)

Did I mention the flu hit?  Yeah… that was a fun way to spend Christmas.  My six year old son was the first to get it, and I’ll spare you the graphic details, but let’s just say his first “episode” required an entire change of clothes AND a bath - for him AND me (and the couch we had been sitting on, and the blanket… ok, you get it).

Within a half hour or so, my niece got it… and then a little while later, my nephew went down.  These two kiddos are my sister’s kids.  The sister with breast cancer who should avoid getting sick?  Yeah, her kids… and then she AND her husband got it.  Sigh…

My 3 year old son got it the next morning.  My dad got it.  My mom got it.  I thought I had it, and got past it…

But I was wrong, and I got it a second time with a HUGE vengeance.

I lost ten pounds in three days - THAT kind of vengeance.

Did I mention that all this happened on Tuesday, Wednesday (aka Christmas Eve), and Thursday (aka CHRISTMAS)?!

Hohoho… and bah humbug.

Thankfully, kids are resilient and even with the flu, Christmas is fun for them.  Also thankfully, they got over it pretty quickly.  I had it longer than anyone (what’s up with that?), and missed the majority of both Christmas Eve and Day to it.  On the plus side, I got a lot of sleep. (Looking for positives here).

I got SO much sleep, in fact, that on our way home on Friday?  I didn’t sleep AT ALL!  Ten hours in the car, and I stayed awake for every MINUTE of that trip.  My husband was so happy.  I’m also starting to wonder if rather than having sleep apnea, I just am sleep deprived?  Mothers of children everywhere, you know what I’m talking about, right?  Samuel is almost seven, so I’d say I have about seven years worth of sleep to catch up on.  Anyway…

So, now we are home, and we are all mostly well.  I say mostly because Martha is currently having a rough time with her eyes.  Pink eye is not her friend.  Basically they like to glue shut with green and dried brown gunk, and she can’t see very well when that happens.  And she does NOT like having them wiped clean, even when Mommy tries to be VERY, VERY careful and gentle.  It takes two of us to put in eye drops for her… and we get to do that FOUR times a day for five days.

Did I mention that my eyes are watery and itchy today?

Happy New Year!

I will say, I think I prefer pink eye to the flu bug.  (Again, looking for positives!)

And speaking of positives, you might want to head over to Laura’s blog for a special Gratituesday event.  I’ll be back later with a bit more gratitude and my official post for that event.  Lord willing.  (I’m starting to think I should quit promising to be back later with more, since that hasn’t been working so well lately!)

Ok, off you go to get a dose or two of gratitude!

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December 20th, 2008

So, the doctor is probably right…

I’ve been a little leery about the idea that I have sleep apnea, since the doctor diagnosed it without a sleep test (although I am due to have one of those too).  I mean, I believe the doctor knows what she’s talking about, but I was still really surprised that she could diagnose such a thing from a simple questinaire.

But, the more I thought about it, the more it made sense.  Things started adding up.

Like how whenever I sit down for any length of time, for any reason… I tend to fall asleep.

Which makes it hard to parent toddlers!  Or, at least… sit DOWN while parenting toddlers.

And how even when I am doing something FUN while sitting down (like reading blogs)… I tend to fall asleep.

Reading BLOGS!  I fall asleep!

Yeah, I can’t believe it either.

There’s nothing like clicking over to your favorite blog, reading a few sentences or so, and all of a sudden realizing that you have drool running down your chin and your neck hurts REALLY bad from all the head bobbing you’ve been doing to try to read just one more sentence.

Not that I drool when I sleep… that was just an embellishment to make my story more exciting.

Mmmhmm.. that’s what it was.

ANYWAY… after falling asleep TWICE in front of my laptop this week… and after driving my son home from the ER (oh, a story for another day), and opening all the windows so I wouldn’t FALL ASLEEP while DRIVING…

Yes, I do believe I have sleep apnea.

I guess the ole’ doc was right.  Can’t wait to wow the folks at the sleep study place with my sleep apnea-ness.

And now, if you’ll excuse me.  My husband and I are heading to California today for our Christmas trip to see my family.  It’s a 10 hour trip.  In a car with two toddlers and a 6 year old.

Sleep apnea - it will be my FRIEND today.  I’m hoping I don’t last more than five minutes before falling off into blissful slumber once we hit the road.

That’s gonna totally happen, right?

Right?

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P.S.  I may be going out of town, but I have pre-written a few posts for Christmas week.  You’re totally gonna want to check back tomorrow for another grab bag reveal!

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December 16th, 2008

Gratituesday - My Mama (aka Mema)

I think I may have mentioned a week or so ago that my Mom was in town.  She came the first part of this month to help out with a few projects and give me some relief so I could get a few extra things done.  I haven’t been feeling the best for quite some time, so it was a welcome relief.  I mean, she’s ALWAYS welcome… it was just an EXTRA relief to have her this time.

It hasn’t been the easiest of years for my Mom (or my Dad).  My Dad’s mom was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s, and she has gone downhill rapidly.  Both Mom and Dad have had to step up and help my Grandpa and Dad’s sisters care for Grandma.  And of course, my sister’s diagnosis of stage four breast cancer in June - that put our family on a whole new path.  My parents just happened to be on vacation in Nebraska with my brother and his family when we all found out.  They cut short their trip, and came back to help my sister and her husband, and the two kiddos.

Suffice it say since June especially, my Mom has been BUSY!  Dr appointments, caring for Austin and Hailey (sis’s kids), soccer games, homework, weekends with them so Sarah could rest (or be sick) without needing to care for them too… helping Grandpa with his finances, taking him to the doctor too, haircuts… so MANY needs (and wants) she has taken care of.

And then she offered to come see me for a little bit… and help ME too!  I was surprised at the offer (because she has so much on her plate), and I felt a little guilty because I knew I’d put her to work when she got here, but I didn’t turn it down either.   The kids were ecstatic, as always, because they adore their Mema.

Mom was here for a week and a half, and yes… I put her to work!  We accomplished so much that when I sat down yesterday to finalize my “week before our Christmas trip” lists and plans?  It was completely and utterly manageable!  In every way!  In fact… I was able to sit down for an hour and READ… a NOVEL.  I can’t tell you the last time I did that!  (I probably SHOULD have been doing more laundry and finishing my Christmas cards, but it was a cold, overcast, rainy/snowy day, and I needed to curl up under a blanket!)

(Did you catch that?  I said SNOWY!  In VEGAS!)

There are still PLENTY of things to do this week, and I will be busy getting it all done in time… but there is so much I don’t HAVE to do, because my Mom did it FOR me.  Happily… willingly… asking what else she could do, as she finished up each job.

So, today… I’m thankful for my Mom.  I’m thankful for her servant heart.  I’m thankful for what an awesome Mema she is to my kiddos and the rest of the grandkids.  I’m grateful that half my To Do list is GONE because she came to town for a week and a half.  And I’m thankful for a huge list of other things I didn’t have time to mention today - things like financial help and understanding, bringing home a fun little gift for the kids whenever she goes to Walmart, her sewing and the gifts that come from that ability… really, I could go on and on.

I love you, Mom!!

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December 14th, 2008

More Digi Scrap Fun Finds (for Christmas!)

This week I hope to share with you several really fabulous Christmas kits, along with the designers who are making them.  I have purchased several new Christmas kits this year, partly because I needed some new designs for custom card-making, and partly because I just couldn’t help myself when faced with the gorgeous designs out there this year!

Miki of Microferk Designs has been ROCKING the holiday kits this year, and I have found myself using her kits almost daily in the last couple of weeks.  You gotta check out the previews to some of her kits…

First, Miki has a wonderful collab out with Phuong of Studio Phuong, called Holiday Shimmer

This kit is SO full of goodies - you won’t even believe it!  I have been using it, and using it, and using it, and I’m only just getting started!  (And I’m also now a fan of Phuong!)

Next up is a Miki’s Winter Sparkle Kit:

And the gorgeous Black Ice kit, which is not a traditional holiday kit per se, but I just know you will be able to use it for elegant holiday layouts and projects:

As if THESE kits weren’t enough, Miki has also released the beautiful Holiday Romance kit.  I downloaded this a few days ago, and haven’t been able to get enough!

(Be sure to click on over and check out the Alpha preview - TOTALLY worth the cost of the kit, by itself!)

And, TODAY, she released a companion kit called Holiday Innocence.  I can’t tell you how badly I want this one - the blues just sucked me right in!

AND while announcing the Holiday Innocence kit, she just happened to mention that it was #2 in a TRILOGY!

Which means… um.. yes… ANOTHER kit is coming! 

You want a sneak peek, don’t you?

I KNOW you do… and Miki so graciously sent a preview my way so you could see the THIRD in the Holiday Trilogy.

Here it is, Holiday Charm (coming soon to SBE!)

I have already asked my husband for an advance on my Christmas gifts so I can pick up Holiday Innocence AND Holiday Charm.  He hasn’t said yes… YET… but I plan to work on him all week long, yes I do!

Ok, I’m done enabling now… for today, anyway!

Happy Shopping!

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